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VIRTUAL THERAPY FOR ADULTS AND PARENTS
THROUGHOUT MICHIGAN and florida

A better relationship with the life you're living.

For adults and parents ready to set down the shame, scripts, and expectations you never chose, and meet what's in front of you from steadier ground.

Honest, individualized therapy for what’s real right now

Therapy for
Adults Parents Complex trauma OCD Adoptive families ARFID Parents of neurodivergent kids

WHAT BRINGS PEOPLE HERE

So much of life
is handed to you

Life is messy  enough on its own, and it gets harder when you are working your way through invisible systems, inherited scripts, and other people's triggers, all while trying to show up for the people you love and still have something left for yourself.

Once you can see it clearly, you get to decide what stays.

Woman with curly hair relaxing in an armchair by a window with a laptop after a virtual therapy session for OCD.
Woman with curly hair relaxing in an armchair by a window with a laptop after a virtual therapy session for OCD.

What steadier can look like

Imagine a Tuesday evening that ends with everyone still in the same room, a hard conversation with your kid where you stay in your own body the whole way through, a week where you don’t have to ration parts of yourself to get through, or a moment where you catch a part of you reacting and lead from a calmer place.

MOST PEOPLE ARRIVE HERE IN ONE OF THREE PLACES

Hi, I’m Sara

I’m a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) and consultant committed to culturally responsive care. I came to this work through group facilitation before I ever sat in the therapist’s chair. That path shaped everything about how I practice. I believe people make the most sense when we look at the whole picture. So I pay attention to the systems and histories that shape you and your family, because the hardest things we carry rarely start with us.

I’m also an adoptive parent, and I’ve sat on the other side of many of the conversations I hold now. It shapes how I work with families whose paths the books don’t cover, and it’s why there’s room here for the full range of what you feel, including the messy parts and the ones that are hard to say out loud.

Whether you’re an adult navigating life or a parent showing up the best you can for your kid(s), there’s room here for the messy parts and the ones that are hard to say out loud.

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MEET YOUR
THERAPIST

MEET YOUR THERAPIST

Therapy with me is finding your way back to yourself.

VIRTUAL THERAPY IN MICHIGAN AND FLORIDA

Specialized care for adults, parents, and the families they’re building

✦ Internal Family Systems
✦ EMDR
✦ CBT-AR for ARFID
✦ Exposure & Response Prevention for OCD
✦ Adoption-Competent Parent Therapy
✦ Intensives

Internal Family Systems ✦ EMDR ✦‍ ‍CBT-AR for ARFID ✦ Exposure & Response Prevention for OCD ✦ Adoption-Competent Parent Therapy ✦ Intensives

Not everyone needs the same shape of therapy, and the shape can change as you do. Sessions run the length the work requires, and intensives exist for the weeks that can’t wait.

TRAUMA THERAPY AND PARENT SUPPORT

The right connection in the right environment can change what’s possible.

I look at the system around you and within you, before anything else. For you, that means your exhaustion and reactivity are understood as intelligent responses to what you were handed. And if you're a parent, it means your child's behavior is understood as a signal about what they're navigating, one that often shifts as you do.

The mess doesn’t disappear, but it stops deciding for you. Your child gets to live in their childhood, and you get to lead as the capable parent you are.

The mess doesn’t disappear, but it stops deciding for you.

You don’t need to have it all figured out

Arriving unsure, mid-mess, and without words for what you’re walking through is exactly where most people begin.